Had a great date.. wait, why he didn't call again?

GIRLS, girls girls girls.. I know y'all wonder this damn question, maybe waiting by your phone or checking facebook inbox or something like that. Well let's face the facts first.

You had a great date, both were having good time and enjoying yourselves. You had a vibe that he might feel something for you.. You're not sure about it because otherwise you would be making actions already.. So on the date.. Did he ASK ABOUT YOU ? Or did he just talk about himself most of the time. Was he a gentleman or more like giving you 2minded talks? Now, rewind to the moment when you discussed about going to date. Did he ask you on the date? Or did you just say "Hey we should meet up sometimes." Because if he did ask you on a date, you still may have a chance of winning. But if it was the second choice, n'aah the % of a succesful crush.. is minimal. 

imageOn a date, did you have those akward silence moments and both couldn't say a thing because the mind was running empty? THEN IT WAS NOT A GOOD DATE! Because on the first dates, you propably have so much things to discuss, because propably you don't even know the charming side of eachother yet. Unless the guy is shy, or you both are. But I think shy people would call back because they would love to give it a try. Because think about it, how many times do they get to go on the real dates? 

Guys are never unpolite unless they want to run away from the date, something like saying at the start already "I have to be somewhere at xx o'clock" <- AND THIS IS NOT ALWAYS LIKE THAT, so that you know.. sometimes guys really have some business to run to. But have you ever thought about that maybe they won't call you even you had a great date because:

  • You are not his type
  • You are too kind for him
  • You are too wild for him
  • You are way too ugly 

That was all about you but there was a more reasons to it like:

  • He is busy with works
  • He isn't looking for relationship
  • He is only looking for fun
  • He doesn't wanna ruin you
  • He just simply doesn't have time
  • He has a GIRLFRIEND 

http://healthyandbeloved.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/tumblr_lxt87uWoKs1r4cxtro1_500_large.jpgAnd if the case was that he promised to call you and he didn't call you after few days.. Have to thought about that maybe you are not the only one he is having a great date with. Think about it! And after all is up to you, you have to know their games to play their games!


Putting a guy in FRIENDZONE is so WRONG!

Sry for not posting anything new lately, been so busy with everything and had a evening shift week.. finally FREE DAY!

So I got a request to write about "Friendzone" which is pretty bullshit if u ask me. I know u may think that my opinion is wrong but I guess I can't change my way of thinking of it. 

What the fuck is going in the girls' mind when they put the guy in that zone. Do they really think the guy is going to stay there for them after opened up about their feelings. Do girls really expect the guy to shut down all those feelings and be just normal like they used to? I don't think so.
I hear girls' saying this too often: "You are too good friend, I really don't want to lose you." Well let me make it straight up girls. YOU HAVE ALREADY LOST HIM WHEN YOU PUT HIM IN FRIENDZONE. Like I said in earlier post, the possibility of a guy and a girl being friends is like 1 in 10 thousand. Unless! You have had something with him and both agree that it doesn't work, OR a guy is a gay, OR the smallest miracle has happened to ur friendship.

Let me tell what's gonna happen after being friendzoned. FIRST the guy is going to TRY to act like he has never felt anything for you. You still talk sometimes because he is still keeping high hopes that you might change your mind.. SO if you are still thinking about keeping him in that zone, make it clear to avoid misunderstandings. AND if you might change ur mind, let him know right away because it's not too late. SECOND is that he doesn't talk to you that often anymore, maybe sometimes when he sees you he says Hi and ask about your life but nothing more than that.. and in the end u don't even keep in touch anymore.. A guys' mind is simple, try to get what you want and if you don't get it.. get away from it and avoid it. 

Here's the tip for girls. You really don't want to friendzone a guy, believe me.. But to keep it simple and nice: Keep the sparkle between you2 but don't make a fuzz about it. Even if there were more guys. I mean don't flirt but just keep the guys' interest on, that's how you can keep them close enough.. BUT nothing lasts forever.. For example: Make the guy like you but not too much, don't talk with him too much because that's making him coming too close which makes him like u or dislike you.. a distance is good sometimes, to avoid situations where things end up like shit!

To the next time then my loves :) 


Work hard, lay low..


Been busy with the gym lately, I started working out since monday. UFF I'm broken from every part of my body but I guess it's worth it. Work + gym = no free time at all! But I guess, it's time to tell you a story.. A story about how and why the guy turns to be a PLAYER..

Behind every PLAYER is the sad story, before he was player or on the time he was a player. Every player falls for their game once in a while.. Feels the love when caught up in their own game. And end up being hurt.. That's when the monster borns! Either player was being hurt or his selfconfidense is fucked up! Believe me I know. Guys are like hunters, we have a need to hunt new preys after catching one. Ofc there comes a time when guys want to settle down.. It's just a big question mark that when ? Some player changes to be better ones after they regret their doings but I think some of 'em won't even change. It's up to ourselves how we act and what we cause with our actions.

Feel free to tell ask, or suggest some topics you want me to discuss about :)

Peace out!


Is he or is he not... TRUSTWORTHY?


I kinda read Cosmopolitan few days ago, cuz one girl told me there were topics worth to read. After I read it.. whatta f*cking bullshit they are feeding to women's mind? BLAH! Something like.. "how to see the signs, is the guy interested" or "how you know that the guy is really into you". 

I know this may sound a bit ruff but this is the ugly truth. MOST of the guys.. thinks with their penis. Ofc there's some exceptions but since the style of nowadays is "fast dating", this is the result, PENIS = BRAINS. Okay here comes 3 facts again. There's 3 kind of guys in this world:

ONES that know they can't get better and tries to keep the girl satisfied, they are trustworthy because they are afraid to loose.. They wont fool around!

ONES that chases the girls, always tryna update to the "latest model". They can't get enough of one, sometimes they pull too many strings at the same time, so propably they always call you BABE just not to confuse with the names. Never trust these ones, not worth to spend the time on them. One night stand is okay but if you're looking forward to relationship, get over it!

and the LAST ONES that knows where the line goes, those guys has been through those "playfull" times already and know what they are capable of. Wanting to settle down and keeping that woman satisfied. You, Ladies, have to put some effort in these guys to keep them happy cuz if they don't feel it, they will walk it out. They know exactly what they want, how they want and with who they want. So believe me when I say, trust them, endure them, and make it last for long. + these men are hard to find unless they are over 30y =D

THERE'S NO SUCH A THING AS SIGNS! If the guy wants to date you, he will make it happen. If the guy wants to call you, he will ask your phone number. If the guy wants to fuck you, he will propably talk BS with you. And if you think something he is doing is the sign, forget it.. HE WILL TELL YOU THAT HE LIKES YOU WHEN HE IS READY unless his actions says more than words! But if you like him and you are unsure about his thoughts, show him with your actions, You can cook for him, every guy loves food.. TRUST ME!